Online Couples Therapy & Sex Therapy in San Diego & California

 

National Divorce Rate Average

 

52%

Sadly, most couples may struggle and endure pain in their relationship for approximately 6 years before reaching out for help.

Greater success rate against divorce

 

30%

Couples Therapy & Premarital Therapy gives you a greater chance to fend against divorce.

Likelier to have sex after talking about sex

 

40%

Learn how to connect and communicate what you like, desire, what excites and entices play within you and help reignite the intimacy.

You’ve almost forgotten how juicy and sexy it feels to be desired, complete connect and confident in your relationship! Couples Therapy may be just what you need!

If you find yourself making statements like these, you’re in the right place:

“I’m scared that if I really open up and show my true emotions, I’ll end up being rejected, and I don’t know if I can handle that kind of pain again.”  

“What if I never find that deep connection I’m looking for? I’m terrified that I’ll spend my life in relationships that just feel unfulfilling and empty.”

“I’m worried I’ll just fall back into the same bad habits from past relationships. I’ve made mistakes before, and I’m afraid I’ll keep repeating them, even if I try to do better.”

“No matter how hard I try, it feels like my partner just doesn’t understand what I’m saying. I try to communicate, but it’s like we’re always missing each other, and it leads to so much conflict.” 

“I feel like my partner doesn’t truly see or hear me. I’m being vulnerable, but I still feel emotionally disconnected, and it’s so frustrating.”

“I want to have more intimacy in my relationship, both physically and emotionally, but it feels like we’re stuck. It’s frustrating to keep hitting this wall when I’m trying to get closer.”

If this sounds like you, try speaking with a Couples Therapist!

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It is time to stop waiting and hoping. Create the intimate, connected relationship that you deeply desire.


You know that you won’t be content in life and in a relationship unless you feel safe, secure, connected and have that intimacy that you crave deep down.

Take the First Step


 

What Relationships Redefined is all about. Here’s how we can help you to get closer to the relationship you desire.

Some Common Issues:

  • Difficulty with or Inability to orgasm

  • Lost or Low Desire

  • Diminished Sex Drive

  • Feeling Distant or “Like a Roommate” with your partner

  • Mismatched Libidos

  • Mistrusting of Your Partner

  • You are too giving in your relationships

  • Relationship Anxiety

  • Infidelity

  • Lack of Sexual Intimacy

  • Pain During Sex

  • Endometriosis, PCOS, Vulvodynia, Vaginismus, Pelvic Pain

  • ED, PE, Male Pelvic Pain, DE

  • Sexual Shame

  • Anxiety Around Sex & Intimacy

  • Dating Fatigue

  • Feeling Held Back by Expectation

  • Constantly Having the Same Disagreements

  • Religious or cultural differences

  • Sexual Abuse and Trauma

  • Opening Up a Relationship

  • Navigating Relationship Agreements

  • Lack of Sexual Confidence

  • Conflict Management

  • Difficulty Addressing Finances

  • Preparing for Marriage (Doing all you can to have success in the future)

  • You keep choosing the wrong partners

  • Feeling Stuck in Old Patterns

  • Toxic Relationships

  • Thoughts of “not good enough”, “I’m broken” or “no one will understand or love me”

If you are struggling with any of the issues above you’re in the right place.

There is a better way, and I can help.

My name is Nikki. I am a relationship and sex therapist in San Diego, CA and I help people uncover what is stopping them from truly connecting in their relationships and to feel wanted, desired, and connected with their partners or themselves.

I won’t just sit and nod my head- I will collaborate with you to figure out what really makes sense for you. There are no cookie-cutter solutions here- because life is never that simple. BUT… I have so many tools and strategies at my disposal AND the intuition to help direct you to the right thing at the right time so you can get where you want.

Contact me for a free counseling consultation

I know it can feel like a big step to call a counselor, but I’ll make it easy. We’ll spend 15-minutes on the phone and I’ll let you know how or if I can help. If I am not the right person, I’ll do my best to get you to the right person.

Online couples therapy is done with your convenience in mind.

We understand that you are busy, and that finding time in your day can be difficult.

Online therapy can help alleviate all of the stressors out of the process, and help you to focus on what’s important to you. No more stressing about traffic, parking or scheduling logistics. Now you can be able to connect with your partner in the comfort of your own home and have more time focusing on relationships and learning more about yourself in the process.

Let me help you do something your future self will thank you for.

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Contact me today, I’d love to help you with your sex therapy journey.

 
 

Online Therapy in San Diego and Throughout California

No more having to worry about commuting, traffic and finding parking – we’ve got you covered with online therapy in California.